20 April 2013

32 weeks down....8ish to go!


How Far Along: 
32 weeks

Due Date: 
June 13th, 2013 (ish), though for whatever reason I keep thinking this baby is going to be coming sooner.  Maybe that is just me trying to make sure I am prepared, lol.

Weight gain: 
Officially up 12lbs so far.  At 32 weeks with Alethea I was only up 7.6lbs, so I have actually managed to gain more weight this time around.  Must have been because I started a bit lighter and am trying to catch up, lol.

Bump Picture: 


Baby Development:  
By now, baby weighs approximately 3.75 pounds and is about 16.7 inches long, taking up a lot of space in my uterus. I am supposed to be gaining about a pound a week and roughly half of that goes right to your baby, but that doesn’t usually pan out for me. In fact, baby will gain a third to half of their birth weight during the next 7 weeks as baby fattens up for survival outside the womb. Baby now has toenails, fingernails, and real hair (or at least respectable peach fuzz). Baby’s skin is becoming soft and smooth as they plump up in preparation for birth.

Symptoms:
I am having more hip pain that I was a few weeks ago, but it is still not all that bad as long as I don’t overdo it.  The worst is when I have been lying down and go from that position straight to standing.  I think the Braxton Hicks contractions have already begun.   They aren’t really painful, just uncomfortable for a few moments. 

Currently craving: 
I wouldn’t say it is a craving, but I am making it a point to limit my sugar intake and up my veggies.  It’s motivating because I always feel better when I am eating healthier. J

Currently Avoiding: 
Like I said before, trying to avoid sugar, except in limited quantities.  Usually involves dessert 1-2 times a week.

Belly button status: 
It is tenderer than it was before pregnancy and it getting shallower by the week.

Movement:
Baby 2.0 likes to party!  This baby seems to be much more active than I remember Alethea being.  He/she moves a lot more when Alethea is sitting in my lap and I love it because it is almost like baby recognizes her presence.  Many of the movements are becoming more forceful and involve a lot more bony protrusions.  Baby 2.0 still loves post meal and evening movement times.

Name:
We have both a boy and a girl name officially decided.  If it’s a boy the initials will be DTH and if it’s a girl the initials will be DBH. J

Any appointments?: 
My glucose test appointment was a success.  I was able to use my 100% grape juice instead of their toxic drink.  They haven’t given me any results so I am just assuming no news is good news.  The next appointment is next Friday as a 33 week appointment.  For whatever reason, they have me on odd weeks.

Any baby related purchases?:
We haven’t purchased anything yet, but I am on the verge of a monitor and double jogging stroller purchase.  I am just waiting for the timing to be right.

Alethea: 
She still loves reading her “new baby books” as she calls them and as always, she loves playing with babies real or pretend.  After a suggestion from a friend, we have started referring to Baby 2.0 as Baby D (since that will be the first initial regardless) and Alethea repeats this as “baby deep” so it’s still a work in progress, but I think it makes it more tangible for her.  She has also been super sweet several times when babbling as she goes to bed and said “baby mommy’s belly come play lala (Alethea)?”  Love it!  She is going to be such a great big sister!

Exercise:
I am still running typically 4 days a week for about 3.5 to 4 miles making my weekly total usually between 14 to 16 miles.  I have been surprised how little has changed with my running.  The biggest changes have been the speed at which I can run and I can no longer wear my heart monitor since there isn’t enough room between my belly and my chest to fit the monitor.  Thankfully I have gotten used to how my body feels when my heart rate gets too high and I also know my trouble spots (typically hills).  Running has been a way of keeping my sanity and a sense of normal during this pregnancy so I hope it doesn’t have to end any time soon.

Oh how these babies are so different already. :-)

09 April 2013

March Update


                I am not even sure where to begin with our March update.  It has been such a whirlwind and a blur of life that I am not even sure I remember everything that happened, lol.  We enjoyed lots of fun trips to the playground as well as fun walks enjoying beautiful weather.  We even made it to the beach one Saturday for Alethea’s 2 year photo shoot.  I am so thankful for the spring-like weather that we were teased with throughout March.

Favorite family pic from the shoot

Favorite Alethea pic!

                We also celebrated the death and resurrection of our Savior, Jesus Christ this month.  It was a bit of a busy day for us, but it was still great to remember the sacrifice He made for us and why we truly celebrate Easter.  We want this to be the focus for our family on Easter, but we also had a little fun this year with an Easter basket and egg hunt for the day too.  Alethea really enjoyed those additions to the day.

Mommy and Alethea...attempt at a post church photo

In her Easter dress

opening all her egg hunt eggs

her candy free Easter basket from Mommy and Daddy 

                This month also marked the beginning of a fun tradition with our good friends the Smiths.  We have started a date swap with them so each couple gets a chance to go out on a date once a month.  It was so much fun for us to head downtown and spend some quality time, just Ben and I, and we enjoyed some fabulous dinner at Slightly North of Broad (SNOB).  Then of course we had to finish off the night with ice cream from Wholly Cow, delish!

Our romantic table :-)

                Ben’s month was overtaken by an audit at work, the final month of grad school, and two trips for interviews for his dream job.  As a result, this meant that we saw him even less than we had been already.  With the audit, the first few weeks of the month meant long hours at work to prep and then go through the process of the audit.  Grad school meant evenings and entire weekends were spent working on projects and trying to keep his head above water.  Then he flew to Texas at the beginning of the month for an interview conference and then was called back for a second interview in Louisville, KY for a job he is super excited about.  Alethea and I were supposed to go with him for the KY trip, but unfortunately a change in schedule and lots of doctor appointments prevented that.  So, all in all, this month really made us cherish the time we do get to spend with Ben and has us praying as well as anxiously awaiting a budget approval so the company can offer Ben a job!

Kissy face pic to send to Daddy while he was gone

Movie night while Daddy was gone

                My month was full of a ton of time spent with a sweet little blonde girl.  Thankfully she was awesome for me most of the month. So even though I was exhausted by the end of most every day, I was happy to wake up a start all over again each day.  I also occupied myself with menu-planning, cooking, and involvement at church.  I am so thankful for the energy that God provided so that I was able to make it through this month.
                Alethea, as usual, is growing like a weed and continuing to develop quite the loveable, sweet personality that has Ben and I constantly turning to each other in acknowledgment of the blessing she is in our lives.  I would like to think our parenting has something to do with her personality development, but I truly think so much of it is a God-given blessing.  We are loving each stage of development as she grows more and more into a little girl and definitely not a baby anymore.  I took her stats again this month which I guess would be 25 months, and she is up to  28lbs 12.8oz and 36.75inches.  It was actually hilarious the other day because the cashier at the commissary just couldn’t get over the fact she had just turned 2 and kept saying, if it weren’t for the hair, she would look like a 3 or 4 year old, lol.  Due to this height she is also graduated to the forward facing settings on her carseat too.

In her forward facing carseat :-)

She loves to play at the playground

                This month has been so exciting in language development as well.  I cannot believe just how much her language continues to grow exponentially.  She is spouting full sentences out (obviously not always proper structure) most of the time now involving anywhere from 3 to sometimes 7 words.  It has been amazing to see her understanding and generalizing of concepts blossom over the month.  Car trips have also become quite the event because she often talks non-stop.  Her new favorite thing is to narrate life as it happens and we have quickly learned that, if we don’t acknowledge what she is saying, many things will get repeated until we do, lol.  She is our little chatterbox (and often songbird) and, though there are times I wish I had earplugs, I wouldn’t want it any other way.

"stwawwww"

"two leebs"

                She has also started to take after her Mommy not only with singing, but she is quite the little monkey.  In the last month, she as truly has begun to climb on pretty much any and everything.  Nothing is off-limits at the park anymore.  She wants to climb everything!  So fun, but at the same time it can be nerve-wracking when she is halfway up the climbing wall without a spotter.  I didn’t even know a 2 year old could use hand and foot holds with such ease, lol!
                Her little mommy instincts have also continued to develop.  She is like a baby magnet and is drawn to them, real or pretend, whenever they are around.  I love her sweet spirit and attention to making sure she cares for them well.  I don’t know that she really understands what it’s going to mean for her to be a big sister in a few months, but I am pretty sure she is going to love it.  We have started to tell her that the baby in Mommy’s belly will come out to play in a few months.  I am thinking this is actually making a bit more sense to her because she has started asking if “baby Mommy’s belly play?”.  Who really knows, but the whole process is fun to see her get excited, even if she doesn’t totally get it yet.

taking care of all her "babies"

Making sure baby sits at the table to eat

                One last thing to mention is my favorite part about her new developing personality.  She is such a compassionate, empathetic, and encouraging little girl.  I love how she gets so concerned when others seem upset.  If she knows she hurt one of us or one of her friends she is quick to go make sure they are okay.  She will say “okay….?” (fill in the blank with whoever it is) and then she loves to give hugs, kisses, or pats to make it better.  It is even common for her to try to share whatever she is playing with to try to make things better.  So sweet!  We see this evident even when we are reading books because she can see the hurt emotions in the faces of the characters.  It is not uncommon for us to have to reassure her that the characters in the book are okay when she asks “….okay?”.  She also loves to clap and say “good job” when anyone around her does something well, especially if it enjoys going potty.  I just love seeing this sweet spirit develop in her!

Her first attempt to pose like Mommy does for "bump" photos

Foamy soap head!

                I think that’s all I really know for now.  I am sure there are updates I am forgetting, but the details have long left this pregnant brain, lol!  It’s been a crazy month, but God has still been good to us.

2 year photo shoot fun

We had some fun at the beach and, thanks to our good friend Anna, we got some awesome pictures to commemorate Alethea's 2 years of life!






















Had a little fun in paint to highlight just how much Alethea has changed in 2 years!



23 March 2013

Two-thirds of the way there!


I decided it would be fun to do the update this way again so here goes:

How Far Along: 
28 weeks (let the 3rd trimester party begin!)

Due Date: 
June 13th, 2013 (ish)

Weight gain: 
Officially up to 11lbs gained…I am actually up more than I was with Alethea, but still on the lower end of the spectrum.  Not sure how I have managed to gain more this time while chasing a toddler and running 12-16 miles a week, lol.  I am hoping it is simply because I am actually maintaining muscle tone this time around. J

Bump Picture: 




Baby Development:  
By this week, baby weighs approximately two and a quarter pounds and measures 14.8 inches from the top of the head to the heels. Baby can blink their eyes, which now sport lashes. With baby’s eyesight developing, baby may be able to see the light that filters in through my womb. Baby's also developing billions of neurons in their brain and adding more body fat in preparation for life in the outside world.

Symptoms:
Baby is becoming more active by the day, mostly after meals and at bedtime.  Thankfully those movements have switched a little in the past week to be less on my bladder and more on the top part of my belly.  That makes for not as many trips to the bathroom, but I am also that it is a good indication that baby may have decided to switch orientation to head down now.  Hip pain is still about the same, thankfully only tends to occur when I first get up from a seated position.

Currently craving: 
Still don’t think they exist, but I am enjoying cooking lots of new recipes that I won’t necessarily have time to make once this little one arrives

Currently Avoiding: 
Pizza…I think it is just too much bread for me right now because I really don’t feel all that great after eating it.  Never thought I would be avoiding that, lol!

Belly button status: 
In, but it’s funny because it doesn’t go straight in anymore so I guess its morphing a bit.

Movement:
Still feeling it more and more each day and like I said above, it is more frequent after meals and before bed.

Name:
We have both a boy and a girl name officially decided.  If it’s a boy the initials will be DTH and if it’s a girl the initials will be DBH. J

Any appointments?: 
Thursday March 28th and hopefully I will be able to go through with the glucose test this time around.  Last time I brought OJ and evidently the doctor has only approved me for grape juice.  Oh well, found some grape juice that is truly 100% grape juice (unlike fake Welchs), so they shouldn’t have any reason to deny it this time.  I will also be hopefully presenting my birth plan this week, so we are praying they are still a go with a natural VBAC.

Any baby related purchases?:
No purchases, but I have gone through Alethea’s stuff from when she was a newborn and it looks like the only thing we will need is a few outfits if we do happen to have a boy.

Alethea: 
She loves her books about a new baby coming.  I also think she is understanding a bit more that something is going on in my belly, though I am not sure she understands that it is a baby yet.  She loves to come up and rub/hug my belly and sometimes even gives it kisses.  We still continue to explain to her that her little brother/sister is in Mommy’s belly and, whether she understands it or not, I think she is going to be super excited to have a new baby in the house.  She loves babies!

01 March 2013

February and 2 year old Alethea Update


               This month was busy as usual, not necessarily with any particular things, but just the combination of Ben’s work and grad school with normal life and a few holidays thrown in made it busy.  We had fun this month celebrating Alethea’s birthday (see previous entry) and we had fun celebrating Valentine’s Day all in the same week which included an awesome dinner out alone for Mommy and Daddy too. J  My family was in town for all of those bigger official celebration times so that was fun. 

Me and my sweet girl

                Valentine’s Day was the first day my parents were in town (well they got here in the afternoon) and we had fun eating a lot of heart shaped goodies including pancakes, grilled cheeses and pizzas.  We even got to go over for some fun Valentine’s treats at the clubhouse of our townhome complex, which Alethea thoroughly enjoyed.  Alethea and I also did several Valentine’s themed art and painting in the days leading up to Valentine’s.  So fun!

Valentine's breakfast

Watching Elmo on Papaw's phone, lol

Valentine's lunch

Valentine's dinner 

Everyone else's dinner :-)

Flowers from Ben

Ring around the rosie with Mamaw


At church with Mamaw and Papaw

At the Battery heading to dinner

Say Cheese!

Post dinner pic...it was actually cold in Charleston, lol

"hello?!"

                One super fun thing we got to do this month was take a drive up to Florence, SC to visit with my cousin, his wife, and their new baby boy.  Alethea was a great traveler and we really enjoyed catching up and meeting the newest member of the family.  Owen definitely stole the show that day….maybe a little bit shared with Alethea at times too. J

Naptime on the way to Florence

Posing with Jenny and Owen

Sweet baby Owen

She wanted Jenny to read all of Owen's books

kisses for Owen

And Bryant got in on the reading too


                Ben has had another busy month with grad school and work.  Thankfully we are at the 1 month countdown until he is completely done so that is super nice.  But for now he has a ton of projects to complete, including presentations, and at work, on top of all of his normal responsibilities, he is preparing for an audit.  Plus, if work and grad school wasn’t enough to overwhelm the poor guy, he found out this month that he will be having his first interview (several actually) at the very beginning of March.  So he has been spending half of the month preparing for that too.  He is heading to Houston, TX to interview for jobs at an interview conference, but we are hoping that he will be chosen for one closer to family in Louisville, KY.
                As for me, I am definitely still pregnant, 25 weeks on the last day of the month.  That is taking up much of my energy, but not too bad most days until Alethea’s bedtime.  Alethea and I are having fun spending time together and looking forward to a little less rain so we can enjoy the outdoors more.  I have however been able to keep up my running this month, with quite a few more solo runs in the mix, which have been an awesome sanity keeper as well as physical release.  I have also continued to enjoy cooking out of my new cookbooks and taking some recipes from pinterest as well.  We have been enjoying some yumminess for sure!
                This month has been a big month for Alethea, especially considering she turned the big 2 on the 21st!  That is still hard to believe no matter how many times I say/write it.  I took her stats and she is still growing like a weed.  She is up to 36.5 (above 99th percentile) inches tall and 28lbs 6.4oz (85th percentile).  She hasn’t gained any new pearly whites recently though; we are still awaiting the arrival of her 2 year molars.  We had her 2 year well checkup and the doctor said everything is looking great and she is developing just right.  

Cheesin' with her monkey

                Potty training is going awesome.  We haven’t really had any pee accidents since the first few weeks and we only have the rare poop accidents that usually occur as she is running to the bathroom, lol.  She is rocking naptime and we haven’t had an accident since the first week.  And at bedtime, since we started waking her up to pee as we go to bed, she has only had one accident (and that was because I think she just drank too much right before bed and peed before we went to bed).  Yay for 24/7 underwear and a break from diapers (and diaper laundry) until June!

Went in to take her to the potty, only to discover this cuteness still holding her glow bracelets

                She is developing more and more into a little chatter box.  I feel like she is constantly talking about something and mimicking everything we say.  She is easily saying the expected 50 words (even if some of them are in her own translation) and she is saying 2 to 3 word phrases often with the occasional 4+ word phrase thrown in there.  I am truly amazed with how quickly communicating with words has developed for her and become something she truly enjoys. 

Pizza fun with Uncle "Can-nee" aka Camden

She loves to read...even the newspaper

but of course she loves to read Elmo

One of her new favorite phrases is to say “come back” and she especially loves to do this when she gets up from nap to ask me to come back to get her or when I tell her in the morning that Daddy is already at work and she says “come back Daddy?” So much fun and I love to see her develop her inflections too.  Another fave is for her to say “are you…?” to whoever she is looking for and then she either looks for them or hides for them to find her.  One of my favorites that she says now is that she says “good gob” (translation: good job) when Mommy, Daddy, or Alethea do something well and then she claps.  She especially loves to do this when any of us goes to the potty, lol.  She has also converted to saying “mommy” and “daddy” instead of “mama” and “dada” which I love.  I especially love her sweet call from the door after naptime to request my presence.
This month she is really loving interactive playtime a lot.  She loves to tell her daddy to tickler her and then she runs away saying “no tick!”  It is such a fun game to watch them play and to hear all the giggles involved.  She also got in some fun rounds of hide and seek when Mamaw and Papaw were here and that is a new favorite.  This month she also started to go through the process of pretending to put mommy/daddy to bed and go through the same routine that we go through with her (including full narration of the whole process, lol).  A random tidbit about her playtime is that she is developing a love for lining things up, especially all of her beanie babies.

Reading in her toy closet with Daddy

"no tick!"

She continues to get better at her colors and does an excellent job at identifying the 8 basic ones pretty regularly.  When I take her on my runs, she loves to point out all the different colored cars.  We have also had fun with counting this month and she has finally started saying “three”.  In the past, she would also say “two” in place of “three” so I was really excited about that.  However, if she is counting by herself she simply goes back and forth between 1 and 2 and she loves to say “one, two, go!” and then run down the hallway.  Her favorite songs of late seem to be “Head, Shoulders, Knees, and Toes” and “If You’re Happy and You Know It” and she loves to sing along with those.  I am absolutely loving listening to her love for music grow and hearing my little songbird sing!
This month we had fun going to watch Ben play in his last Navy intramural basketball league and Alethea loved saying “yay Daddy” and pointing out the fact that he was on the court.  She actually surprised me with how well she did at the games and we only had one potty accident that was a result of an unfortunate private area injury.  But thankfully that healed quickly, so it wasn’t a big deal.  She also really enjoyed her art work this month and even made a frame for Daddy for Valentine’s Day. 
One, not so fun for Mommy, but exciting adventure for her that she went on was at Walmart.  We were picking up some Valentine’s day stuff and I was stopping to look at the boxers to see if there were any fun ones to get Ben.  Next thing I knew she was gone.  I went the direction I thought she was, but didn’t find her.  She wasn’t in the cart, as she usually was, because it had been so rainy and we were trying to go out somewhere for her to walk around and adventure.  I just didn’t have this kind of adventure in mind, lol.  They actually were in the process of calling a code adam when thankfully a worker brought her to my location with headbands around her head.  She had gone one section over (several clothing racks and out of sight though) to try on the little girls headbands and she was all smile having a blast.  Most insane and scary 20 minutes of my life, but definitely a lesson learned in how quickly she can juke her way out of sight.

My little artist

very focused

Color wonder markers are awesome!

Art in the bath?...why not? :-)

Missed a spot on the bottom of her foot, lol

Her eating is going quite well.  She never ceases to amaze me with just how much she will eat sometimes and how little she will eat on rare occasions.  I am also frequently surprised with what she will eat sometimes, especially if it is paired with ketchup.  I keep telling Ben that I need to stop expecting her to eat something and that is when she actually will, lol.  We are even making headway into veggies on occasion, yay!
And last of all, she is starting to really show her two-year-old-ness of late.  She is entering into the zone of limit testing.  When she is given choices she likes to try to throw in a 3rd choice to see what happens.  We obviously don’t give in, but sometimes it results in some not so fun power struggles.  Thankfully we have only had a few times where they have lasted for any period of time once her feelings are acknowledged and we give her a chance to get it out without our attention focused on her. It will be interesting to see how things go as she continues to develop a will of her own.

This makes me smile...showing off her findings from our walk :-)